Before the Nikah – Workshop

Before the Nikah: What to Look For, What to Ask & What to Avoid

Choosing who to marry is one of the most important decisions a person can make. Yet many people enter the process unsure of what they should be looking for, which questions they need to ask, and which warning signs they should not ignore.

Before the Nikah is a practical course designed to help Muslims approach the search for marriage with greater clarity, confidence and an understanding of the important considerations that should come before saying yes.

Delivered by Mufti Ismail ibn Nazir Satia, Integrative Counsellor & Psychotherapist, the course will explore both Islamic guidance and the practical realities involved in choosing a spouse.

What will the course cover?

🔎 How & Where to Look for a Spouse
Understanding appropriate avenues for searching and how to approach the process in a sensible and Islamic manner.

❤️ What Qualities Really Matter
Looking beyond surface-level preferences and considering character, values, religiosity, lifestyle and long-term suitability.

💬 Questions to Ask Before Marriage
What conversations should take place before making a commitment? Learn about important areas that can easily be overlooked during the marriage process.

🚩 Red Flags & Green Flags
Recognising behaviours and characteristics that may deserve greater attention, as well as positive indicators to look for in a potential spouse.

🤝 Compatibility & Expectations
Exploring expectations surrounding married life and identifying areas where differences should be discussed before the Nikah.

👨‍👩‍👧 Family Involvement & Boundaries
Understanding the role of families, healthy involvement and the importance of establishing appropriate boundaries.

🤲 Istikhārah & Making Your Decision
Understanding the role of Istikhārah alongside consultation, due diligence and making an informed decision.

Whether you are actively looking to get married, considering a potential spouse, or simply preparing yourself for marriage in the future, this course aims to equip you with practical knowledge that can help you navigate the process wisely.

Course Details

📅 Saturday 14th November 2026
🕰️ After Maghrib | 4:20pm–6:30pm
🎙️ Mufti Ismail ibn Nazir Satia – Integrative Counsellor & Psychotherapist
📍 Ad-Duha Institute, 1164–1166 Stratford Road, Hall Green, Birmingham, B28 8AQ
💻 Onsite & Online
👥 Open to Brothers & Sisters
💷 Fee: £10

Your registration includes:
📚 Course notes & slides
📜 Certificate of attendance
☕ Light refreshments for onsite attendees

Register now and prepare for marriage with greater clarity about what to look for, what to ask and what to avoid.